The outline of this information is in our core, our core, the true self that is often buried during our early years. If our parents, teachers, or other caregivers do not see and verify the authenticity of our truth, it is likely concealed. The self that many of us define as our “self” is generally our hurt self, our vanity, and the self we create to gain love and avoid pain. Our wounded selves have within them all of our fears and false beliefs, and they have no access to what is true to us.
So how do we discover our passion and purpose if the blueprint of this info is buried for so long? The good news is that while they are buried, they are not lost. A person can recover this information if he is willing to do the inner work of healing his wounded self.
I have worked with thousands of clients who practice the inner bonding process that I teach (see the free course on, The Free Course on, Troubleshooting Their False Beliefs and Fears, Gradually Limiting to the Point Where Their True Self Arises. Poking With It. This is the vital and living aspect of ourselves, the side of us that just wants to) He expresses himself with joy in the world.When you allow this aspect to appear, you will gradually discover what really brings you happiness.
In our society, we tend to ignore our special talents and choose our jobs according to what gives us a sense of safety. However, often, what makes us feel safe does not complement us spiritually. For example, Roger worked as a lawyer for several years, but he never enjoyed it. I was making a lot of money, but when he consulted me, he was suffering from anxiety and depression. He became a lawyer because his father was a lawyer and he wanted Roger to follow in his footsteps. Roger agreed what his father wanted him because he didn’t know what he wanted either, and now, in middle age, he is miserable. He longed to discover his passion.
A few months after starting Inner Bonding, Roger recalled that he really wanted to become a teacher. He never really thought about teaching because he felt he couldn’t earn enough money, but now he’s ready to earn much less because he was unhappy with his current job. Roger is back in school, has his teaching accreditation and is now a high school social studies teacher. Last time I spoke with him he was elated! She loved working with teenagers and felt that she was making a real contribution to their lives. For the first time, he felt alive and excited about his life. His wife decided to endure some financial slump by doing something she had always wanted to do: designing kids’ clothes. She started her mail order business and is pleased with it. Your marriage and family life thrive because you feel happy and content within yourself.